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Happy Birthday Mom  / Stacey Lopez (Daughter)

Well Mom it is this time of year again your special day the day you were born to this earth. I hope you are near by us at all times I need you more than ever Mom. I have been so sick mentally physically emotionally you know Mom I dont really want to be here anymore and it is scarey. As you probably have seen the diagnosed me being Bipolar and I just get worse everyday. I just dont want  my kids seeing this I love them so much and I cant even take care of them the way they should be taken care of I just want to sleep and never wake up I cant take it anymore. Everyone tells me everything will  be ok and I always think for who them it sure isnt ok for me I have had way too many losses in my life and no one seems to understand I put up this cover and all is ok no its not MOM I miss you so much I luv u so much I want u back with me Mom I need you. I am losing my battle mom it is taking over me very fast and hard I am not OK. I cant accomplish anything on my own no more and I dont know what to do. Mom plz tell God I am ready to go home now I need to go home now my kids will be ok. Andrew has his Dad, gramma, & grampa who he wants to be with anyway. Isaiah is young he wont remember so plz take me home I cant live like this no more. Love You Mom Happy Birthday until we meet again your Daughter Stacey

Final Goodbye Letter to Mom  / Stacey Lopez (Daughter)

3rd one dated  6/14/06
Dear Mom,
 
Well I am writing to you to tell you my final goodbye, you know I love you more than life itself you gave me life,
I need to now focus on me and my family I know that is what you would want from me.  I have been sick as you can see and I need to move on with my healing process. 
 
So where do I start I don't understand why you didn't want me to stay with you that last weekend, but then again I don't quite understand why did you choose to do chemo that round when you knew your counts were not high enough.
I guess I have had a hard time dealing with this.
 
I miss you sooo much and wish you were here with us but I know you are not and never will be.
Mom on that final day you died alone why mom you knew so many people loved you didn't you know ahead of time or something just don't understand I guess so I never let it go.  
Well now I am I have accepted the fact that you are gone and you will not be or ever coming back again.
 
God please show me the way to let her go and move on I need to for my children as well as myself.  Thank You Lord for all the times good and bad you gave me with my mom.  
They were the best of years Mom I would like to say I am sorry for all I did to you through the years.  I am so thankful for the time we shared while you were in the hospital and you forgave me for all I did through those years.
 
Even through all the hurt I feel as I write this I Love You Mom and Miss you Soooooo Much but 
I need to let you go Rest In Peace now please take good care of Krystalyn for me and until we meet again
 
My Dearest Mom God Bless and Goodbye
Your Loving Daughter Forever Stacey

TO MY LOVING WIFE  / Bob Pulfer (Husband)

Hun, I Love You more than words could ever express. You are and always will be the love of my life. I think of you every day, the looks you would give me when I did something different than you though I should, your touch when we were close, your kiss, you had a way of bringing everyone together. We all miss that and much more from you. My heart hurts every day not having you here. I never imagined anything could happen to you, not even for a moment. You were  the glue that kept us all together. The best thing for me is the kids and grandkids and keeping busy with projects. I think you would approve of how I have gone on. Until we are reunited once again, I LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH. Your Loving Husband Forever and ever.
OUR BELIEF IN GODS SAVING GRACE HAS SENT YOU TO HEAVEN AND I KNOW I'LL SEE YOU AGAIN ONE DAY.

Stacey / Trav (Favorite nephew! )
Stacers, everytime I visit this memorial, it's always fresh and new. You are doing a great job at maintaining it for your Mom's legacy! Love you guys.

Travis
Missing You...  / Stacey Lopez (Daughter)
I miss You Mom until we meet again take care of Krystalyn luv ya c-ya soon. God Bless
Thinking about you on your birthday in heaven  / Shirley Baer (nome)  Read >>
Thinking about you on your birthday in heaven  / Shirley Baer (nome)
Thinking about your family and praying for them as they spend another day without their precious mother..... Close
Stacey / Polly McMullen   Read >>
Stacey / Polly McMullen
Stacey thinking of you on your Moms Birthday I also lost my Mom 5 years ago.
I miss as well. I know she's with you and spreading her love all around .
Hugs Polly Close
REMEMBERING YOUR MOM  / Judi Fisher   Read >>
REMEMBERING YOUR MOM  / Judi Fisher

Stacey, stopping by to send a Happy Birthday to your Mom today.  I know this is a very hard day for you, sweetie.  God be with you and bring comfort and peace to your heart.  Will remember your Mom and light a candle in her honor.  Sending love and hugs to you today. 

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Mothers day tribute  / Joyce Moran (friend to stacy )  Read >>
Mothers day tribute  / Joyce Moran (friend to stacy )
 Tho we never met, it is a time of regret,             You have a wonderful family,   and a lot of love, Even as  you look down from Heaven above.  Your daughters and sons and husband too, many friends here are thinking of you.  I wish you a very happy mothers day and hope you all meet again in a verry   new way,        With no more pain and no more sorrow,  You'll all be happy in a new tomarrow...God Bless the family of Sandra Close
Stacey / Pamela (pke76) Edmondson (pf friend )  Read >>
Stacey / Pamela (pke76) Edmondson (pf friend )
Stacey I think it is so great that you have done this for your lovely mother.  I lost my father to cancer on August 20, 2005, and just reading the things in this website have helped alot.  Just know that they are in a peacefull place and are still loving us everyday.  Thank you so much for sharing this with me.  My thoughts are with you and your family.
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I am so sorry for your loss.  / Carol Carico   Read >>
I am so sorry for your loss.  / Carol Carico

Stacey,
I am so sorry for the loss of your mamma. I know the pain yopur are feeling. As i lost my mom in 1996. She was my best friend also. Not just my mom. My love and prayers are with you.
Love
Carol
Angel Michael's Mom

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Poem I read at Funeral  / Stacey Lopez (Daughter)  Read >>
Poem I read at Funeral  / Stacey Lopez (Daughter)

   A Letter from Heaven


To my dearest family
Some things I'd like to say,
But first of all to let you know
That I arrived okay.


I'm writing you from Heaven
Where I dwell with God above,
Where there's no more tears or sadness
There is just eternal love.


Please do not be unhappy
Just because I'm out of sight,
Remember that I'm with you
Every morning, noon, and night.


That day I had to leave you
When my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me
And He said, "I welcome you".


"It's good to have you back again
You were missed while you were gone,
As for your dearest family
They'll be here later on."


I need you here so badly
As part of My big plan,
There's so much that we have to do
To help our mortal man."


Then God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do,
And foremost on that list of mine
Is to watch and care for you.


And I will be beside you
Every day and week and year,
And when you're sad I'm standing there
To wipe away that tear.


And when you lie in bed at night
The days chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you
In the middle of the night.


When you think of my life on earth
And all those loving years,
Because you're only human
They are bound to bring you tears.


But do not be afraid to cry
It does relieve the pain,
Remember there would be no flowers
Unless there was some rain.


I wish that I could tell you
Of all that God has planned,
But if I were to tell you
You wouldn't understand.


But one thing is for certain
Though my life on earth is o'er,
I am closer to you now
Than I ever was before.


And to my very dearest friends
Trust God for He knows best,
I'm still not far away from you
I'm just beyond the crest.


There are many rocky roads ahead of you
And many hills to climb,
But together we can do it
Taking one day at a time.


It was always my philosophy
And I'd like it for you too,
That as you give unto the world
So the world will give to you.


If you can help somebody
Who's in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to God at night
My day was not in vain.


And now I am contented
That my life... it was worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile.


So if you meet somebody
Who is down and feeling low,
Just lend a hand to pick him up
As on your way you go.


When you are walking down the street
And you've got me on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps
Only half a step behind.


And when you feel that gentle breeze
Or the wind upon your face,
That's me giving you a great big hug
Or just a soft embrace.


And when it's time for you to go
From that body to be free,
Remember you're not going...
You are coming here to me!


And I will always love you
From that land way up above,

I'll be in touch again soon
P.S....God sends His love.


I am so sorry....but, remember....God knows best!
My prayers and thoughts are with you always.
I love you more than you will ever know!




                God Bless,
                Love Stacey

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In the Eyes of Dad  / Robert Pulfer (Hubby)  Read >>
In the Eyes of Dad  / Robert Pulfer (Hubby)

The years we spent together

Within my heart will stay

Smiles you gave a treasure

I see them till this day

I miss the arms that held me

The friend who was my best

For years you were a constant

Within my life so blest

No matter what the road was

I knew that you'd be there

Your life to me an honor

With children that we share

I see you in the shadows

Of steps I make alone

Your chair may now be empty

My heart is now your home

We shared so much together

In sunshine and in rain

Each day a special memory

With hope will ease the pain

Your children all beside me

Each one a part of you

I hold them to me closely

I know we'll all get through

My heart is always with you

As life will carry on

My love for you unending

Like dreams we built upon

I walk beside you daily

Your footsteps I now share

My arm around you always

I close my eyes you're there.

With Love, Stacey

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